Hurdles

Question: Maybe talk about some of the hurdles you and or your ex could not
overcome.

Answer:
If you are referring to when we were married, yes, we had a few hurdles. That’s why we divorced. If you are referring to after our divorce, then yes we have hurdles. It had to be expected. We both were learning a new dance, a new life, so it was expected that someone would step on the others toes. And that’s where it was also great. It taught me to choose what to stand up for and what to let go of. Beautiful divorce is not about agreeing to everything so no one gets upset. It IS about finding out who you are, what is important to you and to your commitment and to let go of the rest. So, yes, it taught me to stand up in a way that I never was able to do before.